This page is here for the sole pourpose of convincing people that romance and chivalry are not dead, or even comming down with a cold. };P
Ok, so i'll start at the top. Chivalry is not dead! The way to make it more common, is not to just hope for it, but demand it! If you want to see it, expect it! Girls, if a guy will not open the door or you when you get into his car, how can you expect any respect from him on he rest of the date. That is not to say that all girls expect it, and that guys who don't do it, won't, but if you do not ask for it, or let them know, they probably won't assume you do! So let them know, and see what happens! Guys, do it all! Open the doors, put her first, pay for those initial dates! If you end up dating steady, that is another issue, but while you are in the first few dates at least, pay for both of you! When you walk with her, keep between here and traffic, or possible danger, like big dogs, rowdy people, etc... Offer her your coat, take hers for her when inside, offer her your hand in and of cars, big steps, etc... If she refuses your chivalry, act accordingly, some girls do not like it at all, the question is, do you want a girl who can accept being treated well, or not? As for me, I could not Begin to preach, if I were not there myself. Personally, in a relationship, or even just on a casual date, I really like it when the girl will accept the respect and honor she deserves, and allow me to be a gentleman. It has nothing to do with whether she can do any of it herself, and has everything to do with showing the respect that women deserve, for I truely beleive that the lowliest of women is far more worthy of reverance than the greatest of men. Sorry guys, but I beleive that to be quite true, guys have potential, but girls are endowed with many more heavenly attributes than we are, and we can grow beside them , but we can not pass them.
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